Hi Everyone!

I just wanted to let you know that I will be speaking at the ArtLoveMagic Gallery (at Southside on Lamar, in Dallas) this coming Friday, March 25, 2016.

I will be speaking a little bit about my own journey through domestic violence, sickness and the journey that led to me start Surviving Beautifully. Also speaking will be Estella Segovia (who I just photographed for her own Surviving Beautifully session), and Mary Farmer. We will also be making floral crowns. Anyone who has worked with me, or has seen my personal work knows that I love making flower headpieces and using them in shoots. I’m really excited for this event!

I have never spoken publicly about any of my experience with domestic violence, sickness, or why I started Surviving Beautifully. Honestly, I’m pretty terrified, but I feel like speaking about this is the next step for Surviving Beautifully and for my own personal growth. I’ve always been a very introspective, private person, and have avoided speaking in front of people as much as possible. Just a couple of years ago I could barely speak in front of a couple of people at a time about anything. I could never have imagined trying to speak in public about myself (on purpose!), starting a non-profit or trying to build my own business. In starting my own business last year though, and through starting Surviving Beautifully, I have been slowly pushing myself out of my little self-imposed box. I can honestly say that the last year has been one of the most challenging but rewarding years of my life, simply because I have pushed myself so hard to evolve. Change is a very difficult thing, but I’m so happy I took this journey, no matter where it leads me.

Surviving Beautifully is ALL about empowerment, so I am taking this step to empower myself and to spread that message. If I want other women to open up and share their stories of overcoming domestic violence, cancer and critical illness, I need to be able to do the same. Surviving Beautifully isn’t just about giving someone a makeover and some beautiful portraits, it’s about giving women a voice, giving them a little more confidence and sharing hope.

I hope you will join me on Friday!

-Amanda

Hello Everyone!

I wanted to share with you, that I was recently invited to show a piece in the ArtLoveMagic gallery in Dallas. I was so honored to be a part of the show. Iris Candelaria has been so amazing! She asked me to choose a piece that showed both a woman’s fragility and fierceness. My first thought was to use one of Susan’s Surviving Beautifully portraits.

Susan was one of the first Surviving Beautifully models. She had colon cancer, and when I met her, she had just finished chemo. She arrived wearing a wig. I took some ‘before’ pictures, as I usually try to do (when I remember!) and I did her hair makeup myself.

As I was doing her makeup, we were chatting and I asked her what kind of style she really likes. She told me that she’s a big fan of the pin-up look. So I went a little more dramatic with her makeup, and I had a black Marilyn Monroe style dress in the studio that fit her perfectly. I added some jewelry and a hair flower that I had made, and we were in business for her first look.

The first two outfits were with wigs, and at some point, she decided that she would be okay with shooting with a headscarf. While shooting, we were having so much fun that she decided to take the headscarf off.

To me, this has become the most iconic series of images to the Surviving Beautifully project. It represents everything I want this project to be.

When I was helping her dress, I noticed her back tattoo. I could immediately see in my mind a beautiful shot of her back, without the wig on. I am so grateful that she trusted me enough to get this portrait. I had her sit on a stool on a black backdrop, draped her in black fabric, and used only natural light. That, to me, was one of the most fierce and vulnerable moments of my photography career so far. She placed so much trust in me and my vision at that moment.

Two weeks later I sent her her finished digital files. I invited her to purchase prints from me, only if she wanted to, and the print sale would go back into Surviving Beautifully. This is never a mandatory thing. All SB models are free to do almost anything they wish to with their portraits for their personal use. She decided she wanted to come back and purchase prints with her mother a couple of days later.

When she arrived, I was a little floored. She wasn’t wearing her wig, and she had makeup on! She told me that after she saw her portraits, she stopped wearing the wigs and she went and bought herself some new makeup. She felt beautiful in the photos and now had the confidence to rock it without the wigs. I cried after they left. I am not the type to cry a lot, but I did. It touched me so deeply, that she came without a wig on and that my portraits had such an influence. I knew at that moment, that I had to continue this project.

Fast forward about 9 months, and I decided to show her portrait in the ArtLoveMagic gallery. As I was messaging her that I would be using her portrait, it occured to me that I didn’t know what her tattoo actually meant, so I asked. She said, “It’s heart, faith, love and happiness.  Heart in what you do, faith in yourself and you will find love and happiness.” How perfect is that?!

This was my very first art show, hopefully the first of many and I was honored to have Susan’s as my first display. People walking by it may not know the backstory, but I do, and it’ll be special to me until the day I die.

Susan with her portrait My booth at the show

I’m Margo and I’m a makeup artist and hairstylist. Although I love what I do now and get so much joy from making women feel beautiful, that is not where my path began. My career started in business where I earned an undergraduate and then master’s degree in accounting. About halfway through my education my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer for the second time in her life. During the process of running tests for treatment and surgery they discovered she had leukemia as well. It was in those following years my mother taught me what real bravery was.

With her encouragement and a new sense of how short life can be, I decided to pursue what I love and what makes me happy. I am so grateful for my mom’s support, to have such an amazing example of bravery to emulate, and of course the fact that my mom is breast cancer free and her leukemia is in remission. This is why when Amanda gave me the opportunity to work with her with Surviving Beautifully I couldn’t refuse. I am so excited to make every women who steps into the studio feel confident and beautiful.